Taylor Swift couldn’t resist a joke about Selena Gomez beating her to the altar despite engagement to Travis Kelce

Taylor Swift delivered a speech that balanced humor with heartfelt reflection at the wedding of her long-time friend Selena Gomez to producer Benny Blanco.  The ceremony took place Saturday at Sea Crest Nursery in Santa Barbara, California, before an audience of about 170 guests.

Swift, 35, was among the closest friends invited to witness Gomez, 33, and Blanco, 37, exchange vows. Her remarks stood out as one of the most emotional moments of the evening.  Reports indicate that the singer-songwriter opened with a lighthearted comment about Gomez marrying first, adding that both she and Gomez had ultimately found lasting partners. Swift got engaged to Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce in August.

Swift’s reflections on friendship and resilience

While Swift’s introduction was humorous, the tone of her speech shifted as she described the significance of her bond with Gomez.  She emphasized their enduring support for one another, noting that although Gomez often refers to her as an older sister, the friendship has always been reciprocal, with Swift drawing lessons from Gomez as well.

The pop star reflected on the professional and personal difficulties the two have endured over the years. She recalled how they supported each other through public and private challenges, including the disappointments of past relationships.  According to accounts from attendees, Swift’s comments highlighted the resilience both women demonstrated during those times, and the importance of having one another to rely upon.

Swift also addressed Gomez’s relationship with Blanco, telling guests that Gomez’s contentment emerged after she accepted herself fully and focused on personal growth.  It was at that stage, Swift said, that Gomez was able to begin a relationship with Blanco, whom she described as “the most perfect person” for her friend.  She concluded by affirming that the couple were not brought together by chance but by a genuine and lasting connection, calling them “the perfect pair.” Swift added that in all her years of knowing Gomez, she had never seen her so happy.

Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez, Ariana Granda, and Miley Cyrus pose for a pic at Selena’s wedding pic.twitter.com/kc4zpebZbI

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Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco relationship timeline

Gomez and Blanco began dating in the summer of 2023. Their relationship became public when Gomez spoke candidly about her happiness and frequently shared images with Blanco on social media.  Swift, who began her relationship with Kelce during the same period, publicly expressed her enthusiasm when Gomez and Blanco announced their engagement in December 2024, even joking at the time about acting as their flower girl.

Saturday’s wedding marked a significant milestone for Gomez, who has often described her relationship with Blanco as one rooted in respect and stability.  For Swift, the event provided the opportunity to recognize her friend’s marriage while reflecting on their nearly two-decade-long friendship.  Guests described Swift’s speech as one of the most memorable moments of the evening, noting that it drew both laughter and tears.  The address not only celebrated Gomez’s marriage but also highlighted the enduring loyalty and shared history that has defined the friendship between the two performers.